“Dissolution of Marriage”
Divorce is the final termination of marital union, cancelling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds between the parties. Does it help the people who are under this situation? For me, it is just another suffering for them. Why divorce although they can solve their problems and the situation as well, and be with each other again?
Divorce laws vary considerably around the world but in most countries it requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process. The legal process for divorce may also involve issues of spousal support, child custody, child support, distribution of property and division of debt. Where monogamy is law, divorce allows each former partner to marry another; where polygamy is legal, divorce allows the woman to marry another.
As of 2011, the Philippines and the Vatican City do not allow divorce. From 1971 to 1996, four European countries legalized divorce: Spain, Italy, Portugal and the Republic of Ireland. In some Western jurisdictions, divorce does not require a party to assert fault on the part of their partner leading to the breakdown of their marriage. In some countries, when the spouses agree to divorce and to the terms of the divorce, it can be certified by a non-judiciary administrative entity. The effect of a divorce is that both parties are free to marry again.
Divorce is always a traumatic experience in a person's life, especially a child's. When parents divorce, children are not always considered during the settlement. This omission can lead to problems with the child's perception of daily life. The impact divorce has on a family is more prominent to the children of the family than the parents. As a child, there are many situations that affect a view, memory, opinion, or attitude. Children have many of their own daily struggles to cope with, such as peer pressure. Adults sometimes forget what it is like to be a child dealing with some of the childhood pressures. Many parents do not realize how something like divorce could possibly affect their children as much as it does them. The severing of the relationship between mother and father rends the hearts of children, making their own capacity to have deep and trusting relationships more tenuous. For a child, it is very hard losing a parent. The child's life becomes more stressful because of economic loss and the loss of a supportive parent. Since many children do not adjust well, their behavior is affected. The change is devastating for many children and affects the rest of their life. Divorce of parents causes many problems and affects children negatively. The loss of a parent can cause loss in knowledge, skills, and resources from the parents. They lose such things as support from the parent in finances, emotions, and care. Children tend to have a harder time dealing with a divorce the more divorces their parents go through. The better the parents adjust to these losses, the better the children will adjust, and the fewer problems that will come about. The number one cause for divorce is financial difficulty, before a couple enters a marriage they have their own bills and spending habits, they do not need to consult anyone about their money. They want to be able to spend as they please, like when they were single.
Divorce should not be allowed, because it turns your loved one in to opponent and children have to suffer and it is also a time-consuming process. It takes the person who at one time in your life was your lover, perhaps your best friend, and turns that same person into your opponent. Because of the divorce children suffer more than anyone else. They cannot decide with whom to go with. And so they will not get the love of both parents. By keeping the marriage the children will not have to suffer from separation and they will get the love of both parents. Divorce is like breaking one heart into two pieces. There's just no getting around it, divorce is a cruddy process. Because to get divorce we have to do a lot of work to find proof. We also have to find a lawyer which is ready to fight our case. We have to do a lot of research of our opponent so that we can turn him/her down in court and for this it takes time and a lot of money.
Divorce takes our loved one and turns in to our opponent. It's the same person with whom we shared our sorrows and happiness. But now we are trying to put the same person down in front of the society. First we were not able to live without this person at any cost and now we do not want to live with that person at any cost. Some time we make such a silly mistake for that we have to pay for it our rest of the life. We find ways to turn down our opponent, but we do not think what will be his or her mental condition in the court. And sometimes that result in serious outcome. There is lot more other cause so people should try to keep their marriage so that they do not have to suffer through all this.
As I wrote in the whole essay that divorce is an awful process and there is nothing precious as marriage and it is also worth keeping. People still do not understand the importance of keeping marriage and making a good relationship with our partner. Marriage combines two separate hearts into one. And this is done by God, but divorce is not done by God it is done by human being. And because of divorce children have to suffer and we have to put our precious time to turn down our loved one in front of society so marriages have more value than anything else. And it also affects children negatively and turns our loved one into our opponent. It also takes lot of time and money to get a divorce. So please do not break the marriages, it's a blessing of God and belief of millions of people.
